"Joe Country" by Mick Herron
1 week ago
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
It is after 5 o'clock....
I haven't gotten a phone call so I guess I didn't make the cut and I am still JOBLESS! Now I have the sadz. :(
Monday, August 16, 2010
Exciting?...Perhaps.
In the last three weeks or so I have sent out resumes/applied online for 7 jobs. Today I finally got called for an interview. I was so excited that I finally got a call....and then I realized that I needed to shower (arm pits not smell so nice) and wash my hair (greasy ewww). I had an hour to get myself showered and ready. Talk about last minute notice!! I wore some black gaucho pants and a black v-neck t-shirt with a hot pink tank under it for a layered look with hot pink low heeled sandals. I had issues with my hair...because well, it is curlyish and I wear it straight and one hour is just really not long enough to do my hair much less the whole finding something to wear and putting on a little make up. Jeez!! I wound up wearing my hair in a pony tail with the front kinda poufed up with bobby pins to make it stay. I should have taken a pic but I am lazy and took that crap off and took my hair down almost immediately after I got home.
Did I mention that the place I interviewed at is literally less than 5 minutes from my house? That would be great. The position I applied for is Receptionist...sounds easy and it is part time AND it will make hubby quit saying I need a job. lol. I arrived 15 minutes early and went in....the interview lasted 15 minutes. The man was nice, I answered his questions honestly and tried to remember to smile a lot. But I am not sure, I couldn't really read if he liked me or not. He smiled a lot. He even laughed at one point. My fingers are crossed, he says I will know something by Wednesday.
Did I mention that the place I interviewed at is literally less than 5 minutes from my house? That would be great. The position I applied for is Receptionist...sounds easy and it is part time AND it will make hubby quit saying I need a job. lol. I arrived 15 minutes early and went in....the interview lasted 15 minutes. The man was nice, I answered his questions honestly and tried to remember to smile a lot. But I am not sure, I couldn't really read if he liked me or not. He smiled a lot. He even laughed at one point. My fingers are crossed, he says I will know something by Wednesday.
Why don't children come with cliff notes???
Last night DQ (Drama Queen) and I were sitting in the living room (she was texting and I was crocheting) when some how the subject of dating came up. She asked me wasn't I like 13 when I started dating her father? I actually lol at this point and said No, we were boyfriend and girlfriend starting when I was 14 (almost 15) but that I was not allowed to date until I was 16. I also informed her that her father was the ONLY boy that I dated while in highschool. She actually didn't believe this but it is true. So then she gets all huffy and says, "Great, I am screwed!". At this point I turned to her and asked her did she think I was supposed to let her run the roads with every boy she likes? She got up and went to bed.
The thing is she changes "boyfriends" more frequently than she showers. That is only a slight exaggeration. She has a list of 25 boys that were her "boyfriends" last school year! 25!! Seriously? She is only 14, I don't think that I am being an ogre about this, but she never let me tell her my rules on dating. Hubby (her step father) and I have discussed it and we decided that while she is living under our roof she will not be running up and down the roads with every Tom, Dick and Harry that comes along. I think that if she has a long term boyfriend I would let him come over and hang out and then maybe if he was genuinely a good kid I would let her go on a date.
Apparently her step mother was letting boys come over all the time when she was living at her dad's house. She also let her roam the neighborhood doing as she pleased. But DQ also got caught sneaking out from a friend's house while under step mother's supervision, so I think it is safe to say that until DQ earns some trust I am well within my motherly rights to keep her under lock and key. DQ still swears that she did nothing wrong when she snuck out even though her friend lost her virginity that night. OMG!! We will see, Friday DQ has an appointment with my gyno-that is right, I am putting her on birth control, I know lots of people are against it...but guess what? I don't care. I know my daughter, I know that given the chance she will have sex. So, as a GOOD mother I am taking responsibility and not turning a blind eye. I do NOT want to be raising a grandchild...I am waaay too young to be a grandmother. Besides, I was having sex when I was the same age as her...I was sneaking out with her father and going to his house to have sex.
Why oh why don't they pass out handbooks when you give birth? Or at least when they become teenagers? I don't want to be a mean mom, I want to be a good mom, why can't she see that?
The thing is she changes "boyfriends" more frequently than she showers. That is only a slight exaggeration. She has a list of 25 boys that were her "boyfriends" last school year! 25!! Seriously? She is only 14, I don't think that I am being an ogre about this, but she never let me tell her my rules on dating. Hubby (her step father) and I have discussed it and we decided that while she is living under our roof she will not be running up and down the roads with every Tom, Dick and Harry that comes along. I think that if she has a long term boyfriend I would let him come over and hang out and then maybe if he was genuinely a good kid I would let her go on a date.
Apparently her step mother was letting boys come over all the time when she was living at her dad's house. She also let her roam the neighborhood doing as she pleased. But DQ also got caught sneaking out from a friend's house while under step mother's supervision, so I think it is safe to say that until DQ earns some trust I am well within my motherly rights to keep her under lock and key. DQ still swears that she did nothing wrong when she snuck out even though her friend lost her virginity that night. OMG!! We will see, Friday DQ has an appointment with my gyno-that is right, I am putting her on birth control, I know lots of people are against it...but guess what? I don't care. I know my daughter, I know that given the chance she will have sex. So, as a GOOD mother I am taking responsibility and not turning a blind eye. I do NOT want to be raising a grandchild...I am waaay too young to be a grandmother. Besides, I was having sex when I was the same age as her...I was sneaking out with her father and going to his house to have sex.
Why oh why don't they pass out handbooks when you give birth? Or at least when they become teenagers? I don't want to be a mean mom, I want to be a good mom, why can't she see that?
Friday, August 13, 2010
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Haven't put up a new blog lately
so....let's see what can I talk about today?? School starts soon which makes me uber happy Ecstatic!! Finally I will not have to be with my children 24 hrs a day. They were ARE really starting to get on my nerves. They are really excited to be going back to school too. I can't believe that I am going to have a kid in high school, how depressing is that?! Oh well...one step closer to her leaving my house, hahaha. We are going to Freshman Orientation in a couple hours to pick up her schedule.
A couple of friends and I have started a book club which I am completely stoked about...even though I have never been in a book club I assume that because I love to read I will love book club. They even let me pick the first book, We Were the Mulvaneys by Joyce Carol Oates. I have only read about 40 pages so far, but I have been wanting to read it for ages. I hope that everyone likes it, I would hate to pick a book that everyone cringes about.
Tonight we have a double header in Co-ed softball, these will be some of our last games. Even though it is still Africa hot here I will miss softball when it is over and I hope that we will be able to have a team again next year. We really need to win both of our games so that we can be the league winners or at least second place. Ultimately though as long as everyone is having fun that is all that matters.
I finally took all of Encyclopedia Boy's wrestlers away. He got up in the middle of the night and ate nearly a whole gallon of MY banana pudding ice cream!! Hubby made him sign a contract saying that if we caught him stealing again that he is shaving his head. This was the second incident in two weeks, he had stolen candy from his Nana when he stayed the weekend over there. She had taken him to the movies, shopping, and bought him several books in the series he is reading, but she took the books away when she caught him stealing. I just don't know what we are going to do with that boy! I told him that being a thief is a dangerous occupation...
A couple of friends and I have started a book club which I am completely stoked about...even though I have never been in a book club I assume that because I love to read I will love book club. They even let me pick the first book, We Were the Mulvaneys by Joyce Carol Oates. I have only read about 40 pages so far, but I have been wanting to read it for ages. I hope that everyone likes it, I would hate to pick a book that everyone cringes about.
Tonight we have a double header in Co-ed softball, these will be some of our last games. Even though it is still Africa hot here I will miss softball when it is over and I hope that we will be able to have a team again next year. We really need to win both of our games so that we can be the league winners or at least second place. Ultimately though as long as everyone is having fun that is all that matters.
I finally took all of Encyclopedia Boy's wrestlers away. He got up in the middle of the night and ate nearly a whole gallon of MY banana pudding ice cream!! Hubby made him sign a contract saying that if we caught him stealing again that he is shaving his head. This was the second incident in two weeks, he had stolen candy from his Nana when he stayed the weekend over there. She had taken him to the movies, shopping, and bought him several books in the series he is reading, but she took the books away when she caught him stealing. I just don't know what we are going to do with that boy! I told him that being a thief is a dangerous occupation...
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Has anyone found the DeLorian...I need it
Is there any way to fast forward past the mouthy, know everything teenage DRAMA QUEEN years?? I am seriously so tired of it this week. Not that I like it any other week, but this week it is really getting to me. I don't know if it is because "my special visitor" just left or if it is because we were nice enough to allow a teenager we don't know come stay for a week and Drama Queen is unappreciative. Probably a combination of the two.
Drama Queen has started trying to talk down to me, as if I am the child and she is the adult. She questions every move I make, including who I am on the phone with. Of course when I mention this to her the response is always the same, "What did I do?", said in a whining voice obviously.
Her friend seems to be a lovely girl....when she isn't being told what to do by my daughter. It is ridiculous really. I know that I was not a "good" kid by any means but Cheese and Rice I was no where near this level. Drama Queen never does anything wrong in her eyes, she is disrespectful, rude, mean to her siblings, and thinks that the world revolves around her. I try and give her a little bit of leeway since she just moved in with me after living with her step mother (her dad is out of the country for the second time) but there is only so much I can take.
I am at a loss...someone help me please or I may have to take up drinking.
Drama Queen has started trying to talk down to me, as if I am the child and she is the adult. She questions every move I make, including who I am on the phone with. Of course when I mention this to her the response is always the same, "What did I do?", said in a whining voice obviously.
Her friend seems to be a lovely girl....when she isn't being told what to do by my daughter. It is ridiculous really. I know that I was not a "good" kid by any means but Cheese and Rice I was no where near this level. Drama Queen never does anything wrong in her eyes, she is disrespectful, rude, mean to her siblings, and thinks that the world revolves around her. I try and give her a little bit of leeway since she just moved in with me after living with her step mother (her dad is out of the country for the second time) but there is only so much I can take.
I am at a loss...someone help me please or I may have to take up drinking.
Saturday, July 24, 2010
I didn't do it...
How come that no matter if you know already who did something if you ask your children their response is "I didn't do it"? I am so sick of hearing it really....if I could find this Mr I didn't do it, I would so kick his little ass!
Encyclopedia Boy has a problem with getting up in the middle of the night or SOOPER early in the morning and eating things. (ie. Fluff, gum, candy, granola bars, etc.) We can't keep snack foods because you can guarantee that he will get into it while everyone else is sleeping. It isn't a matter of not wanting him to have the food, it is the fact that he sneaks it and then lies about it!! He has been doing this since he was about 2, it started with hot chocolate mix with marshmallows and has moved on to things like the frosting I made in advance for Elmira's birthday party a couple weeks ago.
I just can't figure out what the deal is....we offer him food, I know that sounds ridiculous but he takes meds that make him not have an appetite on top of already being a picky eater. It doesn't matter if I cook something that he loves and has eaten time and time again, he will refuse and then I find something he has eaten in the middle of the night.
Hubby and I are at our wits end as to what to do as punishment since nothing seems to work. We have tried time outs, spanking, taking away television privileges, and removal of his playstation. Still he continues! Three days ago I noticed that an almost full Fluff container was mysteriously empty (and back on the shelf) and asked the kiddos who ate it...they all had the same response, "I didn't do it." I told them that no one could watch tv until someone confessed......three days later and Encyclopedia Boy finally fesses up and has no reason as to why he thinks that this is acceptable behavior.
Well, now he has no playstation forever.... hubby says he is done with being nice and now it is time to start taking a wrestling action figure (Encyclopedia Boy collects these) every time we catch him "stealing" food. I don't know that it is going to work, when I told him that the playstation was now mine he shrugged and went and unplugged it himself. Also, he told me that since hubby is selling his old GI Joes on Ebay that maybe we could make some money off of the wrestlers!! AARRGGHH!
Encyclopedia Boy has a problem with getting up in the middle of the night or SOOPER early in the morning and eating things. (ie. Fluff, gum, candy, granola bars, etc.) We can't keep snack foods because you can guarantee that he will get into it while everyone else is sleeping. It isn't a matter of not wanting him to have the food, it is the fact that he sneaks it and then lies about it!! He has been doing this since he was about 2, it started with hot chocolate mix with marshmallows and has moved on to things like the frosting I made in advance for Elmira's birthday party a couple weeks ago.
I just can't figure out what the deal is....we offer him food, I know that sounds ridiculous but he takes meds that make him not have an appetite on top of already being a picky eater. It doesn't matter if I cook something that he loves and has eaten time and time again, he will refuse and then I find something he has eaten in the middle of the night.
Hubby and I are at our wits end as to what to do as punishment since nothing seems to work. We have tried time outs, spanking, taking away television privileges, and removal of his playstation. Still he continues! Three days ago I noticed that an almost full Fluff container was mysteriously empty (and back on the shelf) and asked the kiddos who ate it...they all had the same response, "I didn't do it." I told them that no one could watch tv until someone confessed......three days later and Encyclopedia Boy finally fesses up and has no reason as to why he thinks that this is acceptable behavior.
Well, now he has no playstation forever.... hubby says he is done with being nice and now it is time to start taking a wrestling action figure (Encyclopedia Boy collects these) every time we catch him "stealing" food. I don't know that it is going to work, when I told him that the playstation was now mine he shrugged and went and unplugged it himself. Also, he told me that since hubby is selling his old GI Joes on Ebay that maybe we could make some money off of the wrestlers!! AARRGGHH!
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